How I Met Your Mother 5 Ways Robin & Barney’s Relationship Was Toxic

Barney and Robin have a complicated relationship in How I Met Your Mother – and one that leads to marriage and divorce in the end.

Barney and Robin were something of a surprise for many fans of HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER – Barney seemed like the least likely person in New York to get married, and Robin made it clear that she didn’t want a serious relationship, let alone with someone who took such pride in his ‘plays’. But over time, it became clear that these two actually had a lot in common.

Later in the series, entire seasons were devoted to the run-up to their big day, with flash-forwards and eventually, multiple episodes that focused on their wedding, but it worked – and fans loved seeing them together. In the end, though, after all their on-again, off-agains, and their marriage, they end up in the future timeline divorced… but always friends.

1Toxic: Game Playing

Barney is known for running plays and playing with women, and even though he loves Robin, he can’t seem to break this habit. When he proposes, he actually runs an incredibly long and convoluted play, lying to her and manipulating her into realizing that she loves him, too. It may end with a romantic snowy moment, and a big ‘yes’, but this is also painfully toxic, as their marriage starts with an engagement based on playing mind games.

2Toxic: Commitment Phobic

Both Barney and Robin have some serious issues with commitment. Barney is so terrified of a relationship that he sleepwalks to the window to sneak out in the early nights of their time together, and while Robin isn’t that bad, she’s also far from ready to settle down.In order to even get them to initially decide that they are in a relationship, Lily has to lock them in a room and literally make them talk it out.

3Toxic: Constant Fighting

When Robin and Barney first get together, they try and play the perfect couple for a long time… but it soon comes out that they are actually fighting constantly. This becomes something of a hallmark for them, too.

They fight through a ski trip, they fight through their relationships, they fight about wedding plans (and a ring bear), and when Robin thinks she might be pregnant, she even gets physically violent, punching him in the face and knocking him out.

2Toxic: Cheating

When Barney was with Nora, and Robin was with Kevin, the two ended up cheating together – which is rarely a good sign for a couple. At least, they both talked about being honest with their partners, and it was Barney who actually spoke up, admitted what happened, and ended things. However, Robin didn’t, deciding that Kevin was the one to stay with. No matter what the fallout, though, the mutual decision to cheat is not a good one.

5Toxic: Bring Out The Worst In Each Other

At the end of one of their times together, this is actually the reason that the two break up. Despite being ‘happy’, their relationship leads to both Barney and Robin no longer treating themselves well – it’s not just that they ‘let themselves go’, but that they no longer take care of or pride in themselves. Robin also becomes mean and snappy, while Barney becomes stupid and oblivious to social cues. This is absolutely not what a healthy relationship should do – ideally, it brings out the best in the people in it!

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