This Tiny Richard Detail Makes Monica & Chandler’s Relationship Weirder in FRIENDS

Created by David Crane and Marta Kauffman, Friends debuted on NBC in 1994 and came to an end in 2004 after ten successful seasons and lots of unforgettable moments and jokes. Friends became one of the greatest TV shows of all time, and its main characters went on to become part of pop culture. Monica and Chandler are one of the most beloved couples in Friends, but one detail related to Monica’s ex-boyfriend, Richard, makes her relationship with Chandler weird.

Set in New York City, Friends follows the lives of a group of six young adults who did their best every day to juggle their social, personal, and professional lives while also dealing with everything adulthood threw at them. Throughout ten seasons, the audience saw Monica, Chandler, Phoebe, Joey, Rachel, and Ross go through all types of obstacles and a lot of heartbreak, as it took them all a while to find their “lobsters.” Perhaps the one who went through one of the toughest emotional rollercoasters in her personal life was Monica (Courteney Cox), who had two serious relationships in Friends: first with Richard Burke (Tom Selleck) and later with Chandler (Matthew Perry), whom she eventually married.

Monica’s relationship with Richard began in Friends season 2, and it was controversial for those closest to them as Richard is 21 years older than her. Still, their relationship was a serious and committed one. Still, unfortunately, it couldn’t last for long as they had different plans for their future, mainly due to their age difference. Monica had a hard time getting over their breakup, and in season 3, they decided to be “friends with benefits,” but that didn’t last long. While Monica and Richard are making out in that same episode, a song plays in the background. That same song was used in two other Monica-related moments, but now with Chandler in the mix, making Monica and Chandler’s relationship weird.

Where Monica and Richard Are Friends” was later used in two Monica/Chandler scenes: first when they are making out in Monica’s apartment in season 5, and the following season when it’s revealed that Chandler will propose to her. Given the importance of Richard in Monica’s arc, how much she struggled to get over their relationship, and how he almost stopped Chandler from proposing to her, it feels odd that Friends reused a song that played during Monica and Richard’s final encounters in two scenes with Chandler, especially one as necessary as the reveal of his plans to propose to her. A simple detail could imply that Monica never fully got over Richard. However, that ultimately didn’t stop her from forming her own family and having the happy marriage she dreamed of.

However, this could also be seen through a less weird lens, with the song instead simply accompanying some critical moments in Monica’s love life, such as her final moments with Richard (before she finally realized their relationship could never work as she would like it to), the beginnings of her relationship with Chandler, and the big step Chandler took when he decided to propose, as he was the one character in Friends who was scared of commitment. This song being reused in those scenes related to Monica doesn’t seem like a coincidence. Still, in the end, it’s the audience who will give it meaning depending on their perspective of Monica’s relationships.

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